10 ways to get your ex who has lost feelings for you back

Jessica Os

Jessica Os

12 min, 30 sec

The video provides detailed strategies for individuals seeking to rekindle a relationship with an ex who has lost feelings for them.

Summary

  • The host emphasizes the importance of not letting bitterness from the breakup overcome you and advises viewers to not take the end of the relationship personally.
  • Understanding why the ex lost feelings is crucial to avoid repeating mistakes and to potentially win them back.
  • Giving the ex space and time is recommended, as well as focusing on self-improvement and presenting oneself authentically.
  • Re-establishing communication and friendship can pave the way for a renewed relationship, but patience and respect for the ex's feelings are key.
  • Showing care through thoughtful gestures and demonstrating personal growth can help in making the ex reconsider their decision.

Chapter 1

Introduction to Winning Back an Ex

0:00 - 35 sec

The video opens with the topic of winning back an ex who has lost feelings and an introduction to the channel.

The video opens with the topic of winning back an ex who has lost feelings and an introduction to the channel.

  • The host begins by addressing the shock and confusion that can follow a breakup with a loved one.
  • The host promises viewers insights on how to potentially win back an ex who has lost feelings.
  • Introduction includes sponsorship mentions for Passionair and Lemonade Finance.

Chapter 2

Avoiding Bitterness

0:35 - 1 min, 32 sec

The host discusses the importance of avoiding bitterness and not taking the breakup personally.

The host discusses the importance of avoiding bitterness and not taking the breakup personally.

  • Bitterness can be detrimental to one's mood and chances of winning back an ex.
  • The host advises viewers to suppress bitterness as it can sabotage relationships.
  • Understanding that the breakup is not personal can help in letting go of negative feelings.

Chapter 3

Understanding the Loss of Feelings

2:07 - 40 sec

Exploring reasons why an ex may lose feelings is essential in the process of trying to win them back.

Exploring reasons why an ex may lose feelings is essential in the process of trying to win them back.

  • Possible reasons for loss of feelings include emotional unreadiness, loss of interest, or a stagnant relationship.
  • Identifying the cause of the breakup helps in avoiding past mistakes and improving future interactions.

Chapter 4

Giving Space and Time

2:47 - 1 min, 22 sec

Giving the ex space and time to think is crucial and stalking or begging should be avoided.

Giving the ex space and time to think is crucial and stalking or begging should be avoided.

  • Respecting the ex's need for time and space can facilitate their healing process.
  • Avoiding desperation and not being pushy can make reconciliation more likely.

Chapter 5

Focusing on Self-Improvement

4:09 - 2 min, 0 sec

Self-improvement during the time apart from an ex can increase the chances of a successful reunion.

Self-improvement during the time apart from an ex can increase the chances of a successful reunion.

  • Improving physical appearance as well as overall life quality can make reuniting easier.
  • Taking up new hobbies or activities can be beneficial for personal growth and can show the ex what they are missing.

Chapter 6

Rekindling Feelings

6:09 - 1 min, 11 sec

Attempt to rekindle feelings by respecting the ex's feelings and giving the relationship time to become something better.

  • Understanding the ex's feelings is as important as understanding one's own in the context of a breakup.
  • Patience is necessary, allowing both parties to heal before considering a fresh start.

Chapter 7

Sparking a Sense of Loss

7:20 - 1 min, 50 sec

It's important to make the ex feel a sense of loss and anticipate the potential of reuniting.

It's important to make the ex feel a sense of loss and anticipate the potential of reuniting.

  • Inducing a fear of loss can trigger attraction and make the ex reconsider the breakup.
  • Communication is key; sending a thought-out text can set a positive tone for future interactions.

Chapter 8

Learning from Breakup Reasons

9:10 - 39 sec

Remembering the reasons for the breakup can provide guidance on how to approach a possible reconciliation.

Remembering the reasons for the breakup can provide guidance on how to approach a possible reconciliation.

  • Recalling the reasons for the breakup helps in creating a roadmap for avoiding past mistakes.

Chapter 9

Establishing a New Friendship

9:49 - 2 min, 35 sec

Establishing a friendship post-breakup can be a stepping stone to repairing the relationship.

Establishing a friendship post-breakup can be a stepping stone to repairing the relationship.

  • Re-establishing communication and friendship can be weird and difficult but is achievable with patience.
  • Starting with simple steps like sending a friendly message can open the door to a new relationship.