COMO SUPERAR TRAUMAS

Eslen Delanogare

Eslen Delanogare

8 min, 8 sec

The video discusses habits, belief systems, emotional impacts from childhood, and how they shape behavior and self-perception.

Summary

  • The speaker discusses the habit change model of trigger, routine, and reward, and how it relates to beliefs.
  • Beliefs stem from childhood experiences, traumas, and genetic factors, influencing current behavior and self-perception.
  • The video touches on psychological concepts such as central beliefs and rule-governed behavior, and how they affect individuals.
  • Exposure therapy is recommended for confronting and altering debilitating beliefs and behaviors.
  • It is acknowledged that changing core beliefs can be challenging and that sometimes it's more about learning to live with them rather than changing them.

Chapter 1

Habit Change and Belief Systems

0:00 - 20 sec

The speaker introduces the concept of habit change and its relation to belief systems.

The speaker introduces the concept of habit change and its relation to belief systems.

  • The habit change model consists of a trigger, routine, and reward.
  • Beliefs are addressed as separate but related to habits, with both influencing our current being.

Chapter 2

Childhood's Impact on Beliefs

0:19 - 32 sec

Discussion on how childhood experiences shape beliefs and impact adult behaviors.

Discussion on how childhood experiences shape beliefs and impact adult behaviors.

  • Childhood learning, traumas, and emotional impacts play a significant role in forming beliefs.
  • Understanding past events is crucial to comprehend current behaviors, especially relating to money and self-worth.

Chapter 3

Identifying and Changing Habits

0:51 - 17 sec

Exploring ways to identify and modify habits rooted in belief systems.

Exploring ways to identify and modify habits rooted in belief systems.

  • Habits develop from continued practices and become automatic, requiring less effort over time.
  • Changing a habit involves understanding and isolating the variables that influence it.

Chapter 4

Core Beliefs and Their Influence

1:08 - 48 sec

Analyzing core beliefs and their profound influence on self-perception and behavior.

Analyzing core beliefs and their profound influence on self-perception and behavior.

  • Core beliefs, such as feeling undeserving or fearful about money, deeply impact our actions and self-image.
  • The video discusses how these core beliefs are formed and their names in psychological terms.

Chapter 5

Central Beliefs and Behavioral Patterns

1:57 - 48 sec

Central beliefs are examined as fixed behavioral patterns shaped by one's experiences.

Central beliefs are examined as fixed behavioral patterns shaped by one's experiences.

  • Central beliefs such as feelings of unworthiness or inadequacy are often formed from negative experiences such as bullying.
  • These beliefs act as a lens through which individuals view the world.

Chapter 6

Exposure Therapy for Belief Alteration

2:44 - 1 min, 4 sec

Describing the use of exposure therapy to challenge and change debilitating beliefs.

Describing the use of exposure therapy to challenge and change debilitating beliefs.

  • Exposure therapy involves creating situations that provide evidence against harmful beliefs, such as fear of public speaking.
  • Gradual exposure helps individuals realize that their fears and beliefs are unfounded.

Chapter 7

Rigid Beliefs and Resistance to Change

3:49 - 1 min, 12 sec

Considering the difficulties and resistance faced when attempting to change rigid beliefs.

Considering the difficulties and resistance faced when attempting to change rigid beliefs.

  • It can be challenging to alter rigid beliefs formed over a lifetime, as an individual may cling to justifications for their beliefs.
  • The speaker emphasizes the importance of ressignifying one's interpretation of the world.

Chapter 8

Accepting Persistent Beliefs

5:00 - 2 min, 56 sec

Understanding the need to accept certain persistent beliefs and learning to live with them.

Understanding the need to accept certain persistent beliefs and learning to live with them.

  • Some beliefs, even if negative, may have been motivators for success and cannot always be easily changed.
  • The speaker suggests that learning to coexist with these beliefs may be more achievable than altering them.