How To Make Someone Want You Again (Tips That You Just Can't Miss!)

Brad Browning

Brad Browning

18 min, 50 sec

Brad Browning explains a four-step technique to make someone want you back, emphasizing what not to do, self-improvement, and re-establishing contact in the right way.

Summary

  • Brad introduces himself as an expert in getting exes back and outlines a four-step technique to make someone desire you again.
  • He lists common mistakes to avoid after a breakup, such as desperation, begging, being a doormat, and reacting poorly to your ex dating someone new.
  • Brad advises a no-contact period to let both parties reach 'Emotional Neutral' and use that time for self-improvement.
  • He details how to re-establish contact through careful messaging and setting up a meet to reignite attraction through flirting and showcasing your best self.

Chapter 1

Introduction to the Expert and the Four-Step Technique

0:00 - 1 min, 10 sec

Brad Browning introduces himself as an 'Ex Back Expert' and teases his four-step technique to make someone want you back.

Brad Browning introduces himself as an 'Ex Back Expert' and teases his four-step technique to make someone want you back.

  • Brad Browning has over 10 years of experience coaching people on how to get their exes back.
  • He mentions that while this video will cover how to rekindle initial desire, other videos of his cover long-term relationship building.
  • He prepares the audience for advice that may seem counter-intuitive or manipulative but assures it will make sense by the end.

Chapter 2

Common Mistakes to Avoid After a Breakup

1:10 - 4 min, 21 sec

Brad shares common mistakes people make after a breakup which can push their ex further away.

Brad shares common mistakes people make after a breakup which can push their ex further away.

  • Constantly contacting your ex is portrayed as desperation, which is unattractive and counterproductive.
  • Begging or using pity to get back together won't work, as relationships are driven by emotion rather than logic.
  • Being a doormat and saying 'yes' to everything makes you less respected and desirable.
  • Reacting poorly to an ex dating someone new is discouraged, as these are often rebound relationships that don't last.
  • Showering your ex with gifts and affection places them on a pedestal, which is unattractive.
  • Avoid lashing out in anger because it can damage the relationship permanently.
  • Obsessing and overanalyzing past messages and interactions with the ex won't provide answers and is not a productive behavior.

Chapter 3

Step One: No-Contact Period

5:31 - 5 min, 17 sec

Brad emphasizes the importance of not contacting your ex for a period of time to let both parties reset emotionally.

Brad emphasizes the importance of not contacting your ex for a period of time to let both parties reset emotionally.

  • No-contact means ceasing all forms of communication with your ex to let them and yourself return to an 'Emotional Neutral' state.
  • During this time, it's crucial to work on self-improvement and to avoid any behavior that might seem like you're invading your ex's privacy.
  • The typical duration for no-contact is around 30 days, but this can vary based on the relationship and its ending.
  • There are few exceptions to the no-contact rule, and even if your ex reaches out, it's advised to maintain distance.

Chapter 4

Step Two: Self-Improvement During No-Contact

10:49 - 2 min, 35 sec

Brad advises using the no-contact period to become the best version of yourself through physical and mental improvements.

Brad advises using the no-contact period to become the best version of yourself through physical and mental improvements.

  • Focus on improving your appearance with a new haircut, better clothing, and regular gym visits.
  • Mental self-improvement includes enjoying social outings, possibly dating new people, and removing reminders of your ex.
  • The goal is to be an attractive person overall, which will naturally draw your ex's attention when you resume contact.

Chapter 5

Step Three: Re-establishing Contact with Your Ex

13:24 - 2 min, 16 sec

Brad suggests how and when to reach out to your ex with the purpose of arranging an in-person meeting.

Brad suggests how and when to reach out to your ex with the purpose of arranging an in-person meeting.

  • After the no-contact period, send a text with a genuine reason to engage your ex's help or input, prompting a response.
  • Use the conversation to set up a casual meet-up, such as coffee or lunch, under the guise of discussing your common interest or question.
  • It's essential to remain upbeat and show off your new-and-improved self during this interaction.

Chapter 6

Step Four: Flirting and Reigniting Attraction

15:39 - 2 min, 50 sec

Brad outlines how to use flirting and reminiscing to make your ex desire you again during the meetup.

Brad outlines how to use flirting and reminiscing to make your ex desire you again during the meetup.

  • Treat the meetup with your ex like a first date, using charisma, fun, and subtle reminders of past intimate moments.
  • Brad introduces the 'Sensual Reminder' tactic, which involves alluding to enjoyable past experiences with a flirty undertone.
  • The combination of improved appearance, positive demeanor, and flirting skills should lead to rekindled attraction.

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