How To Respond To A Narcissist's Irrational Anger

Surviving Narcissism

Surviving Narcissism

14 min, 36 sec

The video discusses the irrational anger of narcissists and how to manage interactions with them.

Summary

  • The presenter promotes their 'Free to Be' workshop and provides a discount link.
  • They discuss the rationality of anger and how it can be a valid response to disrespect, ignored needs, or challenged beliefs.
  • Narcissists have an irrational approach to anger, rooted in a false sense of self and a need for control and affirmation.
  • The presenter offers strategies for dealing with narcissistic anger, emphasizing the importance of maintaining personal boundaries and rationality.
  • Therapy resources, online courses, and other materials are available for further assistance in dealing with narcissists.

Chapter 1

Workshop Promotion and Discount Offer

0:00 - 18 sec

Introduction to the 'Free to Be' workshop with a special discount link.

Introduction to the 'Free to Be' workshop with a special discount link.

  • Interest has been expressed in the 'Free to Be' workshop.
  • A description and special discount for the workshop are available via a link below the video.

Chapter 2

Musical Interlude and Applause

0:25 - 15 sec

A brief musical segment followed by applause.

A brief musical segment followed by applause.

  • A short musical break is present in the video.
  • There is applause, indicating either the end of a section or appreciation of the content.

Chapter 3

Rational Anger and Narcissism

0:40 - 44 sec

Discussing the rationality behind anger and how it can be justified.

Discussing the rationality behind anger and how it can be justified.

  • Anger can be a reasonable response to disrespect, ignored needs, and core values being challenged.
  • Rational anger involves understanding triggers and managing responses.

Chapter 4

Narcissists and Irrational Anger

1:25 - 1 min, 7 sec

Exploring the irrational anger of narcissists and its underlying causes.

Exploring the irrational anger of narcissists and its underlying causes.

  • Narcissists have an irrational foundation, believing the world revolves around them.
  • Their anger is often tied to a need for affirmation and a belief in their superiority.
  • Narcissists lack empathy, viewing others as nuisances and refusing to acknowledge their perspectives.

Chapter 5

Seven Characteristics of Narcissistic Anger

2:32 - 52 sec

Outlining seven reasons why narcissists' anger is irrational.

Outlining seven reasons why narcissists' anger is irrational.

  • Narcissism is built on an irrational foundation with a skewed reality.
  • Narcissists desire affirmation and react with anger when it's not provided.
  • They consider themselves uniquely superior and expect others to acknowledge it.
  • To a narcissist, others are insignificant, and their need for control is paramount.

Chapter 6

Continuation of Narcissistic Anger Characteristics

3:24 - 50 sec

Continuing the explanation of narcissistic anger traits.

Continuing the explanation of narcissistic anger traits.

  • Narcissists have a strong need to control and fear non-conformity.
  • They do not respect boundaries and feel threatened by independence.
  • Narcissists fear being exposed and respond aggressively to potential embarrassment.

Chapter 7

Coping with Narcissistic Anger

4:15 - 1 min, 45 sec

Advice on handling interactions with irrational, angry narcissists.

Advice on handling interactions with irrational, angry narcissists.

  • Stay in your lane, focusing on your own worth, needs, and values.
  • Ensure your anger management is rational and avoid trying to reason with the narcissist.
  • Do not overuse logic or try to shame the narcissist, as they lack a developed conscience.

Chapter 8

Therapeutic Resources

5:59 - 1 min, 22 sec

Promotion of therapy resources, online courses, and further assistance.

Promotion of therapy resources, online courses, and further assistance.

  • The presenter encourages seeking therapy through betterhelp.com with a discount for the first month.
  • Various online courses are available for dealing with narcissists.
  • Other resources like books, articles, and podcasts are mentioned for additional support.

Chapter 9

Concluding Remarks on Narcissistic Anger

7:22 - 7 min, 11 sec

Final thoughts on managing personal anger in response to narcissists.

Final thoughts on managing personal anger in response to narcissists.

  • The video concludes with a reminder of the importance of maintaining dignity, respect, and civility.
  • Despite the narcissist's irrational behavior, one can still manage their anger effectively.
  • The presenter reaffirms the goal of remaining a person of peace.

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