Make Your Ex Regret Breaking Up With You
Brad Browning
9 min, 29 sec
Brad Browning, self-described as Youtube's #1 Breakup Geek, outlines a method for winning an ex back by leveraging emotion and avoiding logic.
Summary
- Brad emphasizes the importance of using emotional strategies rather than logical arguments to rekindle a past relationship.
- He introduces a step-by-step process involving No Contact, self-improvement, and subtle re-engagement via social media.
- The approach is centered on making the ex regret the breakup and believe that reuniting is their own idea.
- Key techniques include a period of No Contact, personal transformation, and careful communication to re-attract the ex.
Chapter 1
Brad Browning introduces his expertise in helping people win their ex back using emotion-based strategies.
- Brad presents himself as an experienced breakup coach on Youtube.
- He suggests that emotion, not logic, is the key to making an ex reconsider a breakup.
- The goal is to make the ex regret their decision and want to rekindle the relationship.
Chapter 2
Brad advises against using logic to convince an ex to reconsider, focusing on emotional influence instead.
- Attempting to use logic to win an ex back is ineffective and shows weakness.
- Romantic feelings are not based on logic, so the approach should be emotional.
- The strategy is to make the ex feel that returning is their idea, and to regret the breakup.
Chapter 3
Brad outlines the No Contact Rule as the first step in the process, emphasizing its importance in creating desire and regret.
- No Contact involves not communicating with the ex for at least 30 days.
- Ignoring the ex makes them crave the lost connection and regret their decision.
- Staying away from the ex allows their negative feelings to fade and memories to improve.
Chapter 4
Brad stresses the need for self-improvement during No Contact to enhance desirability and confidence.
- Use the No Contact period to reflect and improve physically and emotionally.
- Self-improvement increases the ex's desire and the individual's confidence.
- Avoiding contact with the ex even through friends is crucial during this time.
Chapter 5
Brad addresses when to apologize to an ex before starting No Contact, noting that it's usually unnecessary except in certain cases.
- Generally, apologizing is not recommended as it can reinforce the breakup decision.
- Exceptions exist for serious mistakes; in such cases, a brief apology before No Contact is advised.
- Apologies should not be used as an opportunity to beg for reconciliation.
Chapter 6
Brad encourages showing an ex a new and improved version of oneself to reignite interest.
- Identify and change aspects of yourself that your ex disliked.
- Engage in activities that portray a renewed and attractive lifestyle.
- Use social media to subtly display these changes without direct communication.
Chapter 7
Brad explains how to re-engage with an ex after No Contact, aiming to rekindle their interest and desire.
- Reaching out with a well-thought-out text can pique the ex's curiosity.
- The text should be casual, sparking interest without desperation.
- Post-No Contact communication should be handled with care to maintain an upper hand.
Chapter 8
Brad talks about maintaining a power dynamic that induces regret and desire in an ex, leading to a potential reunion.
- Keep a balance between contact and boundaries to make the ex miss intimacy.
- Avoid negativity and demonstrate independence to make the ex feel they need you.
- Treat the ex like an old friend to subtly encourage them to close the emotional gap.
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