Make Your Ex Regret Breaking Up With You

Brad Browning

Brad Browning

9 min, 29 sec

Brad Browning, self-described as Youtube's #1 Breakup Geek, outlines a method for winning an ex back by leveraging emotion and avoiding logic.

Summary

  • Brad emphasizes the importance of using emotional strategies rather than logical arguments to rekindle a past relationship.
  • He introduces a step-by-step process involving No Contact, self-improvement, and subtle re-engagement via social media.
  • The approach is centered on making the ex regret the breakup and believe that reuniting is their own idea.
  • Key techniques include a period of No Contact, personal transformation, and careful communication to re-attract the ex.

Chapter 1

Introduction to Emotional Re-attraction

0:00 - 29 sec

Brad Browning introduces his expertise in helping people win their ex back using emotion-based strategies.

Brad Browning introduces his expertise in helping people win their ex back using emotion-based strategies.

  • Brad presents himself as an experienced breakup coach on Youtube.
  • He suggests that emotion, not logic, is the key to making an ex reconsider a breakup.
  • The goal is to make the ex regret their decision and want to rekindle the relationship.

Chapter 2

The Fallacy of Logical Persuasion

0:35 - 32 sec

Brad advises against using logic to convince an ex to reconsider, focusing on emotional influence instead.

Brad advises against using logic to convince an ex to reconsider, focusing on emotional influence instead.

  • Attempting to use logic to win an ex back is ineffective and shows weakness.
  • Romantic feelings are not based on logic, so the approach should be emotional.
  • The strategy is to make the ex feel that returning is their idea, and to regret the breakup.

Chapter 3

No Contact Rule

1:10 - 2 min, 9 sec

Brad outlines the No Contact Rule as the first step in the process, emphasizing its importance in creating desire and regret.

Brad outlines the No Contact Rule as the first step in the process, emphasizing its importance in creating desire and regret.

  • No Contact involves not communicating with the ex for at least 30 days.
  • Ignoring the ex makes them crave the lost connection and regret their decision.
  • Staying away from the ex allows their negative feelings to fade and memories to improve.

Chapter 4

Self-Improvement During No Contact

3:19 - 46 sec

Brad stresses the need for self-improvement during No Contact to enhance desirability and confidence.

Brad stresses the need for self-improvement during No Contact to enhance desirability and confidence.

  • Use the No Contact period to reflect and improve physically and emotionally.
  • Self-improvement increases the ex's desire and the individual's confidence.
  • Avoiding contact with the ex even through friends is crucial during this time.

Chapter 5

Strategic Apologies and Exceptions

4:08 - 34 sec

Brad addresses when to apologize to an ex before starting No Contact, noting that it's usually unnecessary except in certain cases.

Brad addresses when to apologize to an ex before starting No Contact, noting that it's usually unnecessary except in certain cases.

  • Generally, apologizing is not recommended as it can reinforce the breakup decision.
  • Exceptions exist for serious mistakes; in such cases, a brief apology before No Contact is advised.
  • Apologies should not be used as an opportunity to beg for reconciliation.

Chapter 6

Reinventing Yourself Post-Breakup

4:59 - 1 min, 10 sec

Brad encourages showing an ex a new and improved version of oneself to reignite interest.

Brad encourages showing an ex a new and improved version of oneself to reignite interest.

  • Identify and change aspects of yourself that your ex disliked.
  • Engage in activities that portray a renewed and attractive lifestyle.
  • Use social media to subtly display these changes without direct communication.

Chapter 7

Re-attracting Your Ex

6:15 - 1 min, 52 sec

Brad explains how to re-engage with an ex after No Contact, aiming to rekindle their interest and desire.

Brad explains how to re-engage with an ex after No Contact, aiming to rekindle their interest and desire.

  • Reaching out with a well-thought-out text can pique the ex's curiosity.
  • The text should be casual, sparking interest without desperation.
  • Post-No Contact communication should be handled with care to maintain an upper hand.

Chapter 8

Maintaining Power and Inducing Regret

8:15 - 59 sec

Brad talks about maintaining a power dynamic that induces regret and desire in an ex, leading to a potential reunion.

Brad talks about maintaining a power dynamic that induces regret and desire in an ex, leading to a potential reunion.

  • Keep a balance between contact and boundaries to make the ex miss intimacy.
  • Avoid negativity and demonstrate independence to make the ex feel they need you.
  • Treat the ex like an old friend to subtly encourage them to close the emotional gap.

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