Işıl and Ayçe introduce the show's topic, discussing the complexities of understanding women and their personal struggles with it.

• Işıl and Ayçe greet each other and set the stage for the discussion on understanding women's words, actions, likes, and dislikes.
• The hosts acknowledge their own difficulties in understanding women despite their age and experience.
• They express a desire for future generations to learn from their experiences and not repeat the same struggles.

Discussion on men's behavior that can instantly turn women off, known as 'Deep Freezer' guys.

• The topic shifts to men and how certain actions can immediately repel women, coining the term 'Deep Freezer' guys for such men.
• Examples of such behaviors are provided, including being rude to waiters and wearing white socks with formal attire.
• The hosts discuss the concept of men who can lose a woman's interest in five seconds and share personal anecdotes.

The conversation explores the topic of dating experiences, particularly dealing with stingy men and financial expectations.

• They delve into stories of stingy men on dates and how it's a major turn-off for women.
• A particular anecdote is shared about a man who repeatedly 'forgets' his wallet on dates.
• The discussion highlights the difference between financial capability and stinginess, stressing that it's not about being materialistic but about feeling valued.

The concept of men providing security and protection in a relationship is examined.

• The hosts discuss traditional expectations of men to provide security and protection, as well as financial support.
• Işıl emphasizes the importance of these roles for her, given her independent personality and financial stability.
• They reflect on the balance between needing protection and valuing freedom in relationships.

Işıl and Ayçe discuss their personal preferences in men and how these have evolved over time.

• They explore the idea of 'Deep Freezer' men and share personal stories of not being able to detach from them despite knowing better.
• The conversation covers the attraction to certain physical traits and the shift in their own preferences over time.
• Emotional intelligence and vulnerability in men are highlighted as important traits, although these may not always play out in real-life scenarios.

A reflection on how perceptions of ideal partners change and the patterns observed in relationships.

• The hosts share experiences of changing perceptions about what they find attractive in a man and how past experiences shape current expectations.
• Işıl talks about her preference for men who are not overly concerned with physical fitness, seeing it as a feminine trait.
• They recognize that while intelligence in a partner is prized, often, more primal instincts take over in relationships.

Exploring the importance of physical appearance, self-care, and emotional intelligence in men.

• Discussion of the significance of self-care in men, like good personal hygiene and attire, is considered fundamental.
• The hosts argue that emotional intelligence should be included in the basics of what women look for in men.
• They touch upon the stereotype of different types of women men prefer for dating versus marrying, expressing their preference for being seen as fun rather than just marriage material.

Ayçe recounts her experiment with changing her approach to relationships and what she learned from it.

• Ayçe describes a personal experiment where she tried a sober lifestyle and dating a man who was interested in her, testing a different approach to relationships.
• She narrated their cultural outings and how, despite the man's genuine interest, she ultimately realized her usual approach to relationships was suitable for her.
• The discussion highlights the importance of personal preferences and individual relationship dynamics.

The hosts debate their preferences for stability versus excitement in relationships and the idea of an ideal partner.

• The hosts debate the idea of settling down with a stable, 'bureaucrat-spirited' man versus seeking constant excitement.
• Işıl emphasizes her desire for a stable relationship, while Ayçe shares her preference for a fun and dynamic partnership.
• They explore the concept of manifesting an ideal partner and the realization that no one can have every desired trait.

The conversation focuses on specific behaviors in men that are immediate deal-breakers for the hosts.

• They discuss the concept of 'Deep Freezer' men and how they can cause significant emotional distress.
• Işıl and Ayçe share their perspectives on men who might seem perfect at first but reveal deal-breaking behaviors over time.
• The discussion includes the types of men that have been deal-breakers for them, such as those who mistreat animals or display overly negative behavior.

The hosts acknowledge the diversity in women's expectations and the complex realities of relationships.

• The hosts address the fact that different women have diverse expectations and there's no universal formula for relationships.
• They discuss the importance of timing and compatibility in making a relationship work, regardless of the individual flaws.
• The conversation concludes with an acknowledgment of the impossibility of finding a perfect partner and the inevitability of mistakes in judgment.

The hosts summarize their discussion and reflect on the insights gained about relationship dynamics.

• The hosts wrap up the discussion, reflecting on the insights they've shared about understanding women and the complexities of relationships.
• They acknowledge the individuality of women's preferences and admit that there are no clear-cut answers or solutions to understanding them fully.
• The episode closes with a sense of camaraderie and the anticipation of future discussions on similar topics.