Raised As a Military Brat-Mary Elizabeth

Mary Elizabeth recounts her childhood as an army brat, the traumatic experiences she had, and her current struggles with homelessness and addiction.

Summary

  • Mary Elizabeth grew up on an army base with strict parents, where she was exposed to military training at a young age.
  • A defining moment in her childhood was participating in 'take your daughter to work day,' which involved military training and learning to use weapons.
  • The training left her traumatized, resulting in psychological issues and a shock that caused her to be mute for three days.
  • Her adolescence was marred by acting out and attention-seeking behavior, leading to drinking and drug use.
  • As an adult, Mary has been homeless for three and a half years, occasionally engages in petty crime, and has two children being raised by her parents.

Chapter 1

Family and Childhood

0:02 - 34 sec

Mary Elizabeth talks about her family and what it was like growing up as the daughter of an army officer.

Mary Elizabeth talks about her family and what it was like growing up as the daughter of an army officer.

  • Born in Keen, Texas, she describes a 'fairly normal' childhood on an army base.
  • Her father, an army officer, was very strict and believed showing emotions equated to weakness.
  • She learned from a young age to be prepared for military action, symbolized by the acronym 'BRAT' (Be Ready Anytime).

Chapter 2

Traumatic Military Training

0:36 - 1 min, 41 sec

A detailed recounting of a traumatic 'take your daughter to work day' that involved military training.

A detailed recounting of a traumatic 'take your daughter to work day' that involved military training.

  • At six years old, she was taken to a military training instead of a normal workday, which included learning to use weapons and military equipment.
  • The experience included being in a tank and firing it, which shocked her and left her unable to speak for three days.
  • Only a few children were chosen for this experience, and it significantly impacted her, causing long-term psychological issues.

Chapter 3

Adolescence and Acting Out

2:16 - 2 min, 6 sec

Mary Elizabeth discusses her teenage years and the beginning of her substance abuse.

Mary Elizabeth discusses her teenage years and the beginning of her substance abuse.

  • As a teenager, she sought attention and often acted out, displaying anger issues.
  • She has seen a therapist and revealed that her behavioral issues stem from her early childhood trauma.
  • Her substance abuse started in her teenage years, beginning with drinking and escalating to harder substances.

Chapter 4

Current Struggles with Homelessness

4:22 - 2 min, 13 sec

Mary Elizabeth describes her current life situation, including homelessness and her efforts to recover.

Mary Elizabeth describes her current life situation, including homelessness and her efforts to recover.

  • At 35, she is homeless and trying to put her life back together, seeking housing and dealing with addiction.
  • She occasionally commits petty crimes to survive and sometimes engages in sex work as a last resort.
  • Mary has been homeless for three and a half years and has two children who are being raised by her parents.

Chapter 5

Relationship with Family

6:35 - 2 min, 16 sec

The complexities of Mary Elizabeth's relationships with her family and how it has shaped her.

The complexities of Mary Elizabeth's relationships with her family and how it has shaped her.

  • She maintains contact with her mother but not with her father.
  • Her parents are raising her children differently than how she was raised, indicating a change in their perspective.
  • Mary Elizabeth does not talk to her family about her challenges or her experiences on the streets.

Chapter 6

Therapy and Emotional Coping

8:51 - 1 min, 11 sec

Therapeutic insights and how she copes with the emotional aftermath of her upbringing.

Therapeutic insights and how she copes with the emotional aftermath of her upbringing.

  • Therapy has helped her recognize that her upbringing was not normal and she has learned to avoid exposing children to violence.
  • She uses drugs to numb her emotions but acknowledges that therapy can help in dealing with difficult emotions.
  • Although she does not attend therapy regularly, she finds it beneficial when she does go.

Chapter 7

Mary Elizabeth's Reflections

10:02 - 2 min, 56 sec

Mary Elizabeth reflects on her life's experiences and expresses her hopes and fears for the future.

Mary Elizabeth reflects on her life's experiences and expresses her hopes and fears for the future.

  • She does not dwell on regrets, focusing instead on planning for the future and self-improvement.
  • Her biggest fear is remaining on the streets indefinitely, and she aims to become functional in society again.
  • She has learned the negative effects of exposing children to violence and advocates against it.

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