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Why Do They Come Back After Rejecting You?

Courtney Ryan

12 min, 49 sec

Courtney Ryan discusses reasons why someone might return after rejecting you or breaking up with you.

Summary

Courtney explores various scenarios such as personal growth, jealousy, and the ex's inability to find someone better.
She advises viewers to maintain self-respect and be wary of exes who come back solely due to the viewer's improved circumstances.
Emphasizes the importance of self-growth and not waiting around for someone who treated you poorly.
Encourages viewers to seek partners who are consistent and sure about their feelings rather than being someone's backup option.

Chapter 1

Introduction to Reconnection After Rejection or Breakup

0:00 - 34 sec

Courtney introduces the topic of why exes come back after rejecting or breaking up with someone.

Courtney receives questions daily about why exes return after a breakup.
She aims to clarify confusion and provide explanations for this behavior.

Chapter 2

Personal Success Attracting Attention

0:35 - 1 min, 8 sec

Courtney explains how personal success can cause an ex to take notice and return.

An ex may notice positive changes in your life, such as a new job, and reach out.
This attention may be due to regret or a realization of your value.
Courtney warns that both men and women can exhibit this behavior.

Chapter 3

Handling Rejection with Maturity

1:44 - 41 sec

Courtney discusses how handling rejection maturely can be attractive and lead to an ex's return.

Reacting to breakups respectfully and maturely reflects well on your character.
Maintaining composure and not acting out can make you more attractive to an ex.
Courtney emphasizes self-control in response to rejection.

Chapter 4

Being Wary of Superficial Reconnections

2:26 - 1 min, 13 sec

Courtney advises caution when an ex returns due to superficial reasons like fame or wealth.

If an ex's interest is reignited by superficial gains, it may not be genuine.
Courtney suggests considering the ex's intentions before welcoming them back.

Chapter 5

The Quest for Something Better

3:40 - 1 min, 38 sec

Courtney talks about exes who return after failing to find a better partner.

An ex may return upon realizing they cannot find someone better.
Courtney warns against accepting someone who views you as a second option.

Chapter 6

Genuine Growth Leading to Reconnection

5:24 - 1 min, 37 sec

Courtney recognizes that some exes return after genuine personal growth and healing.

Sometimes an ex returns because they have genuinely grown as a person.
Courtney encourages being on the same page about intentions before reuniting.

Chapter 7

Jealousy and Attention Seeking

7:11 - 2 min, 23 sec

Courtney discusses how jealousy or attention-seeking can drive an ex to return.

Seeing you with a new partner can trigger an ex's interest due to jealousy.
Courtney advises recognizing when you're being used for attention.

Chapter 8

Dealing with Second Guessing and Regret

9:37 - 3 min, 4 sec

Courtney addresses how second guessing and regret can cause an ex to reconsider their decision.

Exes may second guess their decision due to social media influence and fear of missing out.
Courtney suggests finding a consistent and confident partner.

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