Why Silence Makes Your Ex Come Back
Brad Browning
11 min, 8 sec
Breakup coach Brad Browning explains the psychology behind the no contact (ignoring) strategy to win an ex back.
Summary
- Brad has over 10 years of experience helping people with breakups and has noticed a consistent curiosity about the 'no contact' strategy.
- No contact means a complete cessation of communication with the ex for at least 30 days.
- Silence acts as 'shock therapy' for the ex, forcing them to experience life without the presence of the person they've been with.
- The absence is meant to make the ex miss the person more, forget negative memories, and pique curiosity about what the person is doing.
- No contact also prevents one from being a backup plan for the ex, allows self-improvement, and is the most effective strategy according to Brad.
Chapter 1
Brad introduces himself and the concept of the no contact strategy.
- Brad Browning has been a breakup coach for over 10 years.
- He frequently receives questions about the no contact strategy.
- No contact involves ignoring an ex completely for at least 30 days.
Chapter 2
Brad explains why no contact works from a psychological standpoint.
- No contact prevents emotional mistakes immediately after a breakup.
- It allows both parties to cool down and gain perspective on the situation.
- Suddenly disappearing creates a shock, making the breakup feel more intense for the ex.
Chapter 3
Brad lists the benefits of the no contact rule.
- No contact keeps one from making emotional errors post-breakup.
- It provides time to cool down, gain perspective, and potentially reassess the desire to get back together.
- The sudden loss makes the ex feel the absence more acutely.
Chapter 4
Brad discusses shock therapy and how it generates curiosity and mystery.
- No contact shocks the ex by demonstrating life without the partner.
- The sudden loss is compared to having a smartphone taken away abruptly.
- It's more challenging for the ex to adjust to the abrupt loss than a gradual one.
Chapter 5
Brad explains the importance of creating intrigue and avoiding becoming a backup plan.
- No contact creates intrigue as the ex wonders about the sudden disappearance.
- It prevents one from being perceived as a backup option, which can make the breakup scarier for the ex.
Chapter 6
Brad encourages using the no contact period for self-improvement.
- The period of no contact should be used to become more confident and attractive.
- Improving oneself can have a positive impact when one sees their ex again after the period of silence.
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